雨中小记

雨下得越大,内心却越宁静。
虽然我不怎么喜欢雨天,但是,我好像喜欢雨的声音,和下雨时那种清爽的感觉。
自然界的声音自然具有神奇的力量,雨中人的思绪雨中在静静地游荡。

 

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祝我的网站五周岁快乐!同时也是迁入Vultr一周年纪念哦。

Writing posts about my thinkings and feelings?

To my surprise, I want to write something in the stressful final weeks. But I don't want to post it on my Qzone or Moment, where there're too many acquaintances, and I also choose to write in English because I don't want to let too many take notice of it. I need a quiet place.

 

So here I am, at my blog. It has been nearly 5 years since I set up this website. I have to admit that sometimes I'm perplexed about the reason and the purpose of maintaining it. I'm not sure what my blog should be like. (Sharing programming experience? No, I'm just an amateur and am incapable of that. Sharing my daily life? No, I'm not so interested in it and I need to protect my privacy...) Few people come to see this website, and few are interested in what I did or what I wrote. It doesn't really matter, from another perspective, it makes my website a peaceful harbour for me, a secret zone.

 

Maybe I'll start writing posts about my thinkings and feelings later on. It doesn't matter if I don't have any reader. But I'll be very happy if someone has empathy with my posts.

我的网站三岁啦!

第一篇文章发布,我的网站已经伴我走过三载的时光了。感谢大家的支持,感谢OpenShift的稳定服务!

在此,祝它三岁生日快乐!

Friendship

A high school history teacher once told us,"If you make one close friend in school,you will be most fortunate.A true friend is someone who stays with you for life ."Experience teaches that he was right Good friendship is just not easily formed.
It is possible that we simply do not stay in one place long enough for true friendship to develop.However,there can be no disagreement on the need for each of us to think carefully about the kind of friendship we want.
To most of us,friendships are considered very important,but we need to have clear in our minds the kinds of friendship we want Are they to be close or kept at arm’s length?Do we want share ourselves or do we want to walk on the surface?For some people,many friendships on the surface are.Quite enough-and that's all right.But at some point we need to make sure that our expectations.the same as our friends' expectations.The sharing of personal experience in cluding our tears as well as our dark dreams is the surest way to deepen friendships.But it must be undertaken slowly and carried on only if there are signs of interest and action in return.
What are some of the difficulties ship?The greatest is the attraction to expect too much too soon Deep relationships take time.Another "major difficulty" is the selfishness to think one "possesses" the other,including his time and attention.Similarly,friendships require actions in return.In other words,you must give as much as you take.Finally there is a question of taking care of Unless you spend reasonable time together,talking on the phone,writing letters,doing things together,friendships will die away.

——Quoted from a cloze test.